Make Sure you have a Mix of Both Female and Male Facebook Friends
If you message an attractive girl, chances are that she’ll head straight to your friends list to see whether you seem genuine or whether you seem like a player. If she sees that you have hundreds of gorgeous female friends and less than a handful of male friends, she’ll likely ignore your message. Alternatively, consider making your friends list private.
Use Your Friends As An Ice Breaker
Rather than message random girls, you’ll have a far higher success rate if you friend and message hot girls who you share a mutual friend with. However, you’ll want to avoid girls who are close friends with your best friends as you don’t want to create any awkward situations, especially if you’re just looking for a one night stand or a short term hookup. Consider messaging a girl and telling her that she looks familiar before commenting on how you may have seen her at a party involving your mutual friend.
Compliment Her
If a girl responds positively to your initial message, lay on some charm by complimenting her. The trick is to compliment her on a body part which other guys may neglect to mention. As an example, don’t compliment a girl on her eyes, instead tell her that she has cheekbones like a supermodel or a body like a Victoria’s Secret angel. Don’t be afraid to exaggerate!
Respond to Her Messages Within A Day of Receiving Them
If you’re pursuing a gorgeous girl, chances are that she’s also receiving messages from a dozen other guys. So if possible, respond to her messages as soon as you can as that way she’ll warm up to you and forget about your competition who may be playing it cool. If you’re worried about investing so much time on one girl, don’t worry as the key is to gain a girl’s trust quickly so that you can hook up with her, before moving on to the next girl.
Post Photographs of Yourself On a Regular Basis
If a hot photo of you pops up on a girls newsfeed, she’ll be more likely to lust after you. The key is not to post cheesy selfies which may make you look like a try hard but to get friends to take photos of you standing shirtless next to a waterfall on a hike or dressed smartly on a night on the town. By posting regular photos you’ll also prove that you’re a real guy and not a catfish.
Be Careful About the Pages You “like” on Facebook
While you may love Playboy, don’t under any circumstances “like” any pages to do with Playboy on Facebook, as while you may be a bit of a perv, you don’t want to let the women you’re pursuing know this. Also refrain from liking pages which relate to female celebrities or supermodels. Instead, “like” your favorite sports teams pages as you might be able to find girls to message, on their walls. After all, a girl is far more likely to talk to you if you already share a common interest.
Feel Free to Bend The Truth
As an example, if you’re a student studying for an arts degree and a girl asks what you’re studying you could tell her that you’re taking a few law papers. If you’re going to bend the truth, just make sure that the girl you’re telling white lies to, is a casual hook up not a girl who you see as relationship material. As you don’t want your little white lies to catch up with you.
Get to Know Girls in Nearby Cities
To avoid getting a reputation, you might want to consider pursuing girls who live in nearby cities, who you can easily visit for a one night stand or a weekend booty call (unless you are looking for cyber sex or phone sex). Alternatively, if you’re planning a vacation to an exotic locale such as Hawaii or Mexico, you might want to try messaging a local girl in advance, to save you time on vacation. After all why waste valuable time which could be spent hooking up on trying to pull girls in a local bar, when you can have girls phone numbers on your smart phone.
So what are you waiting for? Stop watching so much porn and go pick up the hottest girls you can find on Facebook. Do you have a strategy for picking up girls on Facebook? Let us know below.
