Dress Well: Arm Yourself With Couture
If you want to impress hot girls, then you need to project the right appearance. Girls love smart guys more than smart guys love smart girls. Before you leave your home, you need to ensure that you look stunning. You don’t need to be an Adonis to attract her, but you need to look presentable. First impression is essential, after all. Wear nice attires, comb your hair, brush your teeth etc. Now, before you think I am saying you need to go out of your way to look great, that’s not it at all. However, when it comes to attracting girls, look smart.
Bring your Energy Level Up
Girls at bars respond well to teasing, at least more than girls in the street. Here are the most important tips you need to follow if you want to pick up more girls at bar.
Don’t Blend Into The Crowd
When you go out looking for women the first thing that you should do is find somewhere where you can spot everyone, either in the middle or near the entrance. You need to be able to see women and be able to be spotted by women. If a girl looks at you be sure to catch her eye and smile back at them. Watch where she sits and who she is accompanied with. If she meets up with the local basketball team then you may want to ignore her and look for another girl.
Make Confident Eye Contact
Making eye contact is crucially important when trying to pick up women anywhere. Subtle eye contact is the right way to go. Do not stare at her unless you want to throw the chance out the window. When a woman stares at you for more than two seconds, it is likely that she is giving you approval. You now have a window of opportunity to approach her and initiate a chat. Usually, when she looks back for the second time or is playing with her hair, your chances of getting her increase.
Look Up and Watch Your Posture
Good posture is associated with confidence as well as less social fear. Your parents were smart when they told you to “walk straight”! While making your way over to her, walk tall. Good posture communicates self-confidence and high self-esteem. Rounded shoulders, slouching and poor posture makes you look nervous and reduces your status. You will attract her if you walk tall. Not to mention, you’ll feel more confident by making this change. Another benefit of good posture is that you appear taller, which doesn’t hurt when it comes to attracting girls!
Talk To Her From The Heart
A majority of men get too nervous when initiating a conversation for the first time. Whether you’re a geek or a jock, you have that feeling of anxiety of making the best impression. You feel the pressure to say something funny, clever; something that will set you apart from every other guy trying to hit on her. Never use any tacky pick-up lines that are out of a book for a bad joke. You need to develop a keen kind of personality that says to the girl you are a real man with a good sense of humor and you can think for yourself.
Keep It Simple
It’s natural, if you get the attention of a woman for the first time, to go wild. You want to buy her every drink. While it’s not a bad idea, women are put off when they sense you are a kind of man who tries too hard to win women. Stand out from others and do not be so eager to impress her. If a woman thinks you are not interested in her, not only will she ask herself questions, but she will be more intrigued too. Keep it simple and lighthearted. Act as though you don’t care whether she likes you or not.
So now you’ve conversed with her, found out her name, her likes and dislikes, and so on. Now comes the part where you take her home.
