Though, aside from the song, there’s also another way on how you can improve your relationship, increase sexual confidence, and other things related to it– no other than through surrogate sex therapy. Allow us to delve into details on how this can be of great help not only for you, but for your partner as well.
What Is Sex Therapy?
It’s a specialized form of counseling that focuses on sexual issues for couples and even single individuals. Moreover, a sex therapist is a professional that can help a person solve his sexual related problem with the use of questions, suggestions, home exercises, and so on.
What Is Surrogate Sex Therapy?
Surrogate sex therapy is classified as a form of psychotherapy that supports both men and women who had a traumatic life or sexual experiences in the past. Likewise, it also helps those who have trouble with sex, orgasm, or intercourse because of pain or other reasons.
Although it’s often perceived as something strange– due to the fact that surrogate sex therapists do get intimately involved with the clients– it’s one of the effective ways on how to solve intimacy issues that a lot of couples are dealing with.
Is Sex Therapy Really Helpful?
Truth be told, sex therapy can be incredibly rewarding, especially for those who want to improve their sex life. That in mind, it’s perfect for those who have stopped having sex, but want to have the ability of performing it again.
It doesn’t matter if you’re single, in a relationship, married, or homosexual, sex therapy can help you improve your sex life and resolve those sexual problems you have been experiencing for a long time.
Who Should Seek for Help?
Everyone can go to a sex therapist. It doesn’t matter what your age is (as long as you’re not a minor), sexual orientation, gender, religion, or ethnicity. As long as you want to put an end to these following issues, you’ll be a good candidate for sex therapy:
- Those who want to deal with sexual identity crisis.
- Those who have sexual inhibitions that restrict them from feeling ‘normal.’
- Those who are dissatisfied with their virility.
- Couples who want to have a better relationship with their partner.
- Couples who want to improve their sexual intimacy.
Types of Sex Therapy: Sex Therapy with a Therapist VS Sex Therapy with Your Partner
For couples who are interested in going on a sex therapy, they’ll probably be required to go to the session together. However, if one would rather go alone, there’s nothing wrong with this. This will also depend on the discretion of the therapist– if there will be a need to bring your partner with you or not.
Kinds of Problem Sex Surrogate Therapy Can Help Heal
For women, this may include the following:
- Vaginismus – Painful sex usually linked to anxiety or fear of having sex
- Problems with reaching orgasm
- Genital pain
- Changes brought by aging
For men, this may include the following:
- Erectile dysfunction
- Prostate cancer recovery
- Low sexual drive
- Porn addiction
Sex Therapy for Virgins
Truth be told, it has been reported by sex therapists and surrogates that there’s plenty of adult-virgin clients who call for help. These people aren’t usually ‘ugly,’ but some of them do suffer from social disorders, lack of confidence, poor dating skills, psychological problems, and lack of sexual dysfunction that restrict them from engaging in normal sexual relationships.
Adult virgins who seek help from sex surrogates often find a solution to their problem and it leaves them with a positive outlook on life after the program.
A Permanent Cure for Loneliness
Qualified sex therapists and surrogates teach skills and techniques that can be applied into the real world. Aside from that, there are instances where physical touching is involved as a way to help the patient ‘discover’ more about himself.
Benefits of Sex Therapy
Here are some of the benefits you can enjoy from sex therapy:
- Strengthen the relationship: Sex therapy can help couples increase their sexual desires and interest in engaging in sexual activities with their partners.
- Improves sexual confidence: This form of therapy helps an individual become more comfortable in talking about sex and issues related to it.
- Reduces sexual anxiety: Through this, you can discover new solutions to your sexual problems.Reduce the risks of rejection: You can develop new skills with the help of sex therapists and this could improve your relationship success dramatically.
Typical Sex Surrogate Sessions
The Initial Consultation
In order to become qualified for surrogate sex therapy, an initial consultation is required. This will allow your surrogate to understand you better, your needs, and come up with a process that will allow you to enjoy long-lasting results.
The Surrogate Session
The main goal of the sex surrogate is to create a warm environment that will allow you to feel comfortable as the therapist try to solve the sexual problems you’re experiencing.
Oftentimes, sexual problems aren’t even sexual at all. Negative emotions, such as frustration, anger, resentment, and rejection can send signal to the mind which sends directives to the genital region. This can block the erotic pathway and would result to premature ejaculation, lack of desire, and erectile dysfunction.
Considering the private nature of the material being discussed in sex therapy, a lot of people prefer speaking over the phone rather than doing it in person. Although this can be challenging at first, this doesn’t mean it’s impossible.
All surrogacy work should be supervised by a licensed sex therapist. Without proper supervision, sex therapy over the phone is just phone sex. A professional phone sex therapist will keep the session confidential– there’s no need to worry about the information being discussed over being divulged to others.
How to Find a Reputable Sex Therapist
Lets face it, receiving sex therapy can be a bit embarrassing. In order to keep things confidential and make sure your problem is solved and not aggravated, it’s highly advisable to work with a licensed sex therapist. These professionals have completed the additional training and certification, allowing them to give a better diagnosis and the most appropriate treatment for you.
Keep in mind though, there are several scams that offer false sex therapy sessions. Thus, it’s never advisable to visit a sex therapist who will force you to have sex with him, or with other people as a way to solve your problem. The Mayo Clinic even suggests that sex therapists don’t work in contact with their clients– this is a surrogate sex therapist’s job.
